The other half is becoming someone the right person wants to stay with. Coaching is the second half. It is for singles who keep landing in the same place, and for couples who are not in crisis and would still like to be better at this.
You date the same wrong type on a loop. Your profile is not landing and you cannot work out why. You have been out of it for six years and genuinely do not know where to start. Everything goes well until date three and then something quietly goes flat.
These are patterns. Patterns have causes, and causes can be worked on. Usually faster than people expect, because the person telling you is looking at it from the outside for the first time.
Most couples who book do not have a crisis. They have a loop — the same argument about money, or time, or whose parents. Or they want to get properly aligned on where the next five years go before one of them makes a decision that assumes the other agreed.
Sessions are practical. You leave with specific things to try, not a feeling.
Matchmaker and relationship coach
Every session is with him. He has sat across from a great many single people and couples, and he will tell you what he sees rather than what is comfortable.
Sessions are on video anywhere around the world, or in-person in South Carolina.
Pick the one that fits. Every session is with Samuel.
Discovery Session
$125
45 minutes · video
One specific problem, worked on properly. Bring the actual thing: the profile that is not performing, the conversation you cannot work out how to start, the pattern you have noticed and cannot name. You leave with three things to do and a clear sense of which one matters most.
Best for: one clear problem, or finding out whether coaching is for you.
The Reset
$350
90 minutes · video or in person
A full audit plus a written plan you keep. Your photos, your profile, where you are looking, how you are choosing, and the patterns underneath all of it. Ninety minutes of somebody genuinely paying attention, and a document you will still be using in six months.
Best for: being stuck for a while without knowing why.
Coaching Arc
$1,100
four sessions over eight weeks
For people actively dating who want someone in their corner while they do it. You debrief real dates as they happen and adjust in close to real time, which is when advice is actually worth something.
Best for: dating now and wanting the next two months to count.
Couples Intensive
$220
75 minutes · video or in person, for two
Both of you, one session, one loop. You will each say the thing you have been circling, and then work on what to do about it. Some couples book one. Some book one a quarter and treat it as maintenance, which is the smarter use of it.
Best for: a specific recurring argument, or aligning on what is next.
What a session is like
No intake forms to fill in beforehand and no first session spent on your childhood. Samuel will ask what you want to be different, ask two or three uncomfortable questions, and then you will work.
He will tell you things you might not enjoy. That is the service. If he agrees with everything you say for forty-five minutes, you have wasted $125 and he has wasted an afternoon.
Free to download, free to join, and about ninety seconds to set up. Nobody on it is an algorithm’s idea of you.
Free. 18+. No subscription, no paywalled messages, no boosts to buy.
